Wednesday, August 18, 2010
States With High Closing Costs
10 States with Pricey Closing Costs Closing costs have risen an average of 36.6 percent compared to 2009, according to Bankrate.com’s annual survey.
The big increased was caused by the U.S. government requiring lenders to provide accurate good faith estimates of closing costs. Previously, lenders weren’t penalized for a bad estimate.
On average, the origination and third party fees on a $200,000 purchase mortgage added up to $3,741.
Here are the 10 highest states:
1. New York, $5,623
2. Texas, $4,708
3. Utah, $4,605
4. California-San Francisco, $4,566; California-Los Angeles, $4,406
5. Alaska, $4,327
6. Oklahoma, $4,254
7. Pennsylvania, $4,236
8. New Jersey, $4,110
9. Idaho, $4,077
10. Massachusetts, $4,025
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Dressed To Kill?
To address the first half of the question, obviously people will do what their boss requests regardless of how quick the change may occur (no one wants to get fired over wearing converse...in the grand scheme, it just doesn't seem worth the fight). Let's say though that the dress code is merely a strong suggestion versus a requirement. I truly do believe that some people are more effective when they're dressed in "work clothes." I, however, am not necessarily one of those people. I also do not like to be odd man out. If everyone's wearing dress pants, I won't be the idiot in jeans. I will take the strong suggestion and run. I do think though, that a company/head of a company, will face a lot of resistance by not implementing these "rules" from the start. I know in my office, the main comment is "why now?" And really, if nothing changed in the company/position you hold, why now?
The second part of the question is a little more tricky because it really is a matter of personal style. Many people have "phone jobs," and still but put on business attire to go to work. However, as previously mentioned, (::cough::me::cough::) not everyone needs to "dress for success" to feel successful. Personally, I conduct business the same regardless of my attire. Whether I'm working from home in my pajamas (My life's goal - if you're reading this, put that into the universe for me. K, thanks), or I'm sitting at my desk in a business suit, I'm the same. Actually, I feel more comfortable/ready to work when I'm not in business attire.
Given the nature of my business, comfortability is important.It's funny how different the life of an agent is from the life of a consultant. As an agent, I always dressed in business attire. You have to. Appearance is half the battle. As a consultant though, (and I'd venture to guess this applies to any/all phone versus in person business) appearance means nothing. Body language is more important than what you're actually wearing.So, I guess I'm seeking opinions. If you were working for a company where a dress code was suddenly strongly recommended (keep in mind, my new dress code is mandatory. The question is hypothetical), what would you do? Also, do you feel more successful/professional in business attire?
Monday, August 2, 2010
40-Year Mortgage?
So, you can't build equity and your monthly payments are maybe $100 less. What's the point? To me, it seems like yet another way to scam buyers into taking out larger loans.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
50 States, 50 Tax Incentives?
Now, there hasn't been much discussion (from what I understand) as to which states will offer what. However, I'd imagine it would be based on their largest demographic. For example, on Long Island, we have A LOT of first-time buyers. Really, New York, as a whole does. For us, it would probably be most beneficial to continue a similar tax incentive to the one previously offered. However, maybe other states can offer retirement tax breaks or tax breaks for buyers with school-aged children. Whatever it is, the goal is to stimulate the market. To me, this makes a great deal of sense. Because the state will be making the rules, they can continuously amend them to fit the needs of their buyers. Given what a success (I know some of you will argue otherwise...) the first tax credit was, this new concept of enticement is worth a shot. It seems to be the best solution anyone has come up with in quite some time.
Monday, July 26, 2010
Don't Hold Your Breath
Don't Hold Your Breath
More tomorrow...it's be quite a week!
Monday, July 19, 2010
Go Hofstra?
Hofstra Buildings Sold For Workforce Housing
I'm curious to see what type of uproar this causes. I happen to think making use of the vacant buildings is a great idea. However, I'd imagine the parents paying top dollar to send their kids to a private university will not be happy.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
I'll Take The Million Dollar Home, With a Side of Fries.
I spoke to a guy a few days ago who, while very nice, was completely delusional. The conversation started off with the basics, "Where? How much? When? and why?" I was told "Manhattan, 450K, immediately, and for investment." The next series of questions "What part of Manhattan? Are you pre-qualified, or will this be a cash-purchase? Where do you live now? How large of a unit?" Here's where the trouble started. He wanted (well, I should say "wants") a 1bdr condo for 450K and a 10% down payment. On top of that, he hadn't yet consulted with a mortgage broker. Here's the problem, the one building that fits that price point (yes, there is one building in all of Manhattan...so I was told today), does not sublet. Meaning, he could purchase it, but then what? Now, I'm a fairly blunt person. When something doesn't sit right with me, I have no problem saying it. I basically told this man that it wasn't going to happen. However, because I have a few agents who owe me favors, I would humor him and have one get in touch with him. (Or, I said "your search doesn't quite add up, but I'd be more than happy to have one of my agents speak further with you"...whatever). My point is (I know you were waiting), there is nothing wrong with educating a buyer. In fact, I recommend it. However, if you see that someone is spinning their wheels and, in turn, spinning yours, put them on the back burner. I've seen far too many agents waste their time in the past few months. These buyers/sellers/investors give a whole new meaning to the term "testers." They test our patience, and most of all, they test our expertise.
The moral: Be blunt. Though we're trained to beat around the bush and not offend, in this market, that doesn't fly. If it doesn't exist, tell them. If their money won't buy them a 5bdr house on an acre, show them. Utilize the information you have to prove that you are the expert. Sadly, in real estate, the customer is usually not right.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Money Vs. Happiness
I spent a lot of today thinking about Money vs. Happiness. It stemmed from a phone conversation I had with a guy who will be starting Law School in the fall. When I asked him if he was excited, and what kind of law he'd be studying, he said "Who cares? I'm in it for the money." I think it goes without saying that the ideal situation is to work in a profession that offers both happiness and financial reward. What about those of us who aren't fortunate enough to be in that situation, though? I am lucky enough now to be on the path of achieving a nice balance between the two. However, for a long time I wasn't. I always vowed to myself that happiness would trump all else, and I'd never be the type of person who takes a job just to get a paycheck. As we all do though, I grew up and got a reality check. I've come to find that without financial independence, it is hard to be truly happy (clearly, this doesn't apply to all of your heiresses out there. You know, because Paris Hilton is sitting home reading my blog...) I grew up in an upper-middle class town on Long Island, and never needed for anything. I grew accustomed to a certain lifestyle. My whole life, my parents reminded me that my expensive tastes and likes would someday have to be supported by me. That led me to start working at 13. Was it the financial independence that drove me? The idea of freedom? Or, was I scared to live my life based solely on happiness? Let's face it, if I was basing my career choices on happiness, there would be a lot more sleeping and a lot less working. The age old question still remains, though. Does money actually equate in happiness? Or, can our happiness be enough to get us through life?
To be honest, I'm torn. On some level, I'd like to think that I'm down-to-earth enough to not need excessive amounts of money. Money, on that level of my thinking, should be a want. There's the other part of me though, that equates money with freedom. In the real estate world, most of us base our successes on numbers - How many houses did we sell? How much did we gross for our companies? How much did we pocket?- -It's hard not to. While it may be an emotionally satisfying profession on many levels, the ultimate goal is a hug goodbye and a check. In real estate, it's pretty straight forward that if you're not doing any deals, you're not successful. Then again, who knows? Maybe you're just happy to have your real estate license? What is success, though? I'm not going to get all philosophical on you, but isn't it fair to say that if you're happy with your success, you're "successful?" The first time I met my first manager in my first office, he asked me "How many deals do you need to complete this year to make you feel like a success?" I gave him my answer (4...it's my favorite number, and I was 20 years old), and he then explained that he'd be happy with any number, as long as I achieved it. Success is ultimately measured in achieving the goals you set for yourself. On that level, I find happiness to be more important than money. That being said, had I not achieved my goal and not reaped the financial rewards of it, I would feel quite the opposite.
While writing this, I think I've answered my own question. If you're unhappy with a job, chances are, you're not being a very effective worker. We do the best at the things we enjoy. If you're being ineffective, you're not making money. Therefore, happiness is not only more important than money, but is directly correlated. Though I do think money is important, I am a strong proponent of weighing your options. There is no such thing as being "stuck." I've had friends/co-workers/family describe their lives with this term before, and I just don't believe it. We, as human beings, have the power to constantly reinvent ourselves. "Stuck," is not an option.
The moral: Measure your success in your level of satisfaction. Be it financially or emotionally driven, your personal satisfaction is what will ultimately make or break you.
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Happy Fourth Of July!
Monday, June 28, 2010
Monster Calls.
Given my job, one would think I'd be less nasty and more forgiving to a cold caller. I'm not. One would also think I have a heart of gold, and let telemarketers finish what they have to say. I don't. I can't explain it, but something starts to rile me up the second I see an unfamiliar phone number on the Caller ID. This laid back, passive-aggressive girl (well, sometimes) turns into a two-headed demon. There is no rhyme or reason behind it (I don't think. That's what I'm trying to figure out), I just snap. Why are we, as humans, totally comfortable being confrontational, honest and abrupt to a stranger? Yet, in our personal lives, we maintain a balance between truth and politeness. I understand the comfort in anonymity, but this is a bit excessive.
Recently, I got a new phone number (no, you can't have it). Because I thought the days of carpet cleaners and newspaper companies calling your house at 2am (due, of course, to Al Gore's invention of the internet) were long-gone, I didn't even think to block my number right away. Bad move. Within the first three days of having said, new number, I had 46 missed calls. Now I'm barely ever home, so the chances of me catching these "people" in the act was slim to none. Every day I'd come home to a bevy of missed calls from Missouri, Minnesota and Newsday. None of which I have any interest in. This past week, while watching The Real Housewives Of New Jersey, I caught one. Missouri. Now, I had no intention of screaming or yelling. My plan was to simply say "I'm not interested." My plan was a huge failure. I ended up telling him off. I was possessed. As soon as I hung up the phone, I had a "what the hell?" moment. This poor guy wasn't calling to ruin my life, or even really calling to bother me. He was just doing his job. Annoying? Yes. Worthy of a verbal beating? No. When relaying this story to my friends, I was told that I did the right thing (Keep in mind, I included the verbatim rant I went on when I told them) No one seemed to have a problem with it. Scary,right? (You know you're from New York when...) Ultimately, I decided I can't handle solicitors with the dignity and poise I hoped I could and signed up for the "do not call" list.
So, where am I going with this? How is this going to help you better-understand real estate? Well, real estate's a people business. It boils down to this, everyone is a stranger, until they're not (how profound, right?). You're a stranger to your customers until they feel comfortable around you. And customers, you're strangers to agents until they have your loyalty. My point (I knew I'd get here, eventually) is that in this very small world, we have to make a conscious effort to treat people well. You never know who you're speaking with (especially over the phone), and you never know how that person will impact you later on. I know (well, I hope) for most of you this isn't something new. We are well-trained in our business to always put our best foot forward, but do we carry it further? I'm saying we should constantly be looking over our shoulders, and biting our tongues even when we're alone, at home, yelling at telemarketers.
Monday, June 21, 2010
Section Hate.
Two years ago, I took on a Section 8-approved client. I thought, "Wow, this is great. They have a government-determined budget and can only have a certain type of house. Plus, the government is paying me. What could possibly go wrong?!" The answer? Everything. Everything possible went wrong. I showed the client a million homes in a million different areas for months.(At the time, landlords could say that they didn't accept programs, so the houses that did accept programs were few and far between). They ended up taking a house on the South Shore of Nassau County. The inspection went well, the house was nice and we seemed to be on our way to a goodbye and a check. Little did I know, the matriarch of the family not only half-asked her paper work, she was pregnant with her fifth child. Meaning, the housing requirements would change. Section 8 determined the house met their needs anyway, and allowed them to proceed. Leases were signed, tenants moved in, landlord moved out (so we thought), and on we went. After a week of not getting a check on what should have been an easy deal, I started to question what was going on. The other agent and I became friendly enough during the transaction and were both concerned about our fees. She called the caseworker to find out what was going on. Nonchalantly, the woman told her that the proper paperwork had yet to be submitted from the tenant and payment would be held until then. I was baffled. So, the tenant had already moved in, yet her paperwork was incomplete? Weeks went by, then two months and still, no check. In this business, it's important to know when to cut your losses. I had enough. The $800 wasn't going to make or break my year. After losing hope and giving up, I received a phone call from the tenant. She said that the house wasn't suitable, the landlord was verbally abusing them, and had yet to fully move out. I basically told her it wasn't my problem. While I felt for her, (really, I did...) I don't work for free. I told her that I'd help her if she submitted her paperwork that day and I had a check in my hand from Section 8 the following week. Apparently, things weren't that bad. Not only did I never hear from her again, I still haven't received payment for my completed transaction. Here's the kicker: Out of sheer curiosity, I drove by the house about three months ago to see if they were still living there rent free. At this point, I'm sure you're not shocked to find out that they were.
The moral: Well, I guess there's two. The first, as I said, know when to cut your losses. Not everything is worth a battle. The other agent wanted to take them to small claims court. To me, that would have been a huge waste of time and effort. Don't get me wrong, I was pissed. I ran these people around like I was selling them a $3,000,000 home, but it just wasn't worth the energy. And second, know who you're getting involved with. I think it's unethical to not allow real estate agents the right to refuse Section 8 clients. As independent contractors, we should have the right to refuse working with anyone. Ethics go both ways. We're not volunteers, we need to get paid. As much as I enjoy real estate, I'm not doing it for my health (maybe my health insurance, but not my health). For most of us, real estate is our career. I will hold your hand and your child all through the process, but at the end of it, I need to be paid. Am I saying avoid Section 8 deals like the plague? No. I'm just saying to watch your back in any situation. No one cares about your payment except for YOU. Take care of yourself, and know what you're getting into.
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Chump Change.
I have to admit, I'm actually little annoyed at the moment by a conversation I had with someone who feels that the First-Time Buyer Tax Credit was, and will continue to be, a huge waste of time. They called the credit "excessive" and "ineffective." Naturally, I asked "What business do you work in?" They said "real estate." They then asked me if I really think that the tax credit had that big of an impact on business.(A little piece of me wanted to smack him. I refrained.) Wake up, People! That tax credit drove almost all of our business this past year! Without that $8,000 worth of buyer-courage, we'd be twiddling our thumbs and looking for supplementary income. I can't even begin to tell you how many people I had spoken to from summer of '09 until April who's motivation to buy was solely credit-driven. In short, I'm a fan of the tax credit.
We then spoke about the possibility of another extension, or another credit being offered. Again, big fan. Buying your first house is horrifying, and it's nice to know that you have the encouragement of your country to move forward with such a huge decision. I do agree that if you're buying a home, $8,000 shouldn't make or break you.(That was another one of their arguments) It's not the amount though, it's the principle. Because people are so scared to buy and spend their money, they take comfort in knowing the people running this country are not just saying "go ahead, it's okay," but are offering financial rewards for helping stimulate the economy. Lately, business on my end has been slow. As I've said before, there are a lot of window-shoppers. Everyone's looking, but not too many people are ready to pull the trigger. However, the agents I work with are super busy because, as most of them will tell you, they're finishing up the last of their tax credit-buyer's transactions. It's fairly obvious from my end of this business that another tax credit similar or the same to the previous one, would continue to stimulate sales. Otherwise, I feel a lot of people will continue to wait for what's next. Most people are at a standstill because the market is so finicky. Whatever direction the market goes, directly effects the amount of sales actually happening. If the government were to re-encourage first-time buyers to buy, the market would naturally pick back up.
Because majority of first-time buyers are buying in the 300K to 500K range, we should re-stimulate them now. We have such an overwhelming amount of inventory in that price range (especially on Long Island), that it could only benefit us to have more qualified (this is key) people out there searching within that price point. It's basic logic, People. Qualified Buyers + Abundance of Inventory = Increase in Sales. If you're going from a market where everyone is just poking around and unqualified (i.e. now) to a market where finances are in order and there's a nation-wide deadline, sales have to pick up.
There is no great moral to this, My Friends. It is not my job to sway the opinions you are entitled to have. All I can say is that I, personally, think the tax credit is one of the best governmental ideas this administration has had so far. I'd love to know what other people think about it, as there really seems to be great divide amongst my colleagues. I understand why someone would say we're giving away money, but it goes along with the logic of spending money to make money. This economy will not reboot itself. It's not an iPod. If we do not make the appropriate efforts to fix what we've essentially created, we will find ourselves in much deeper water than we're in now.
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
We Salute You, Mr. President.
Presidential Homes Hit By Housing Crash
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Buyer Beware.
This topic has been brewing in my head for some time, but after a really over the top experience I had today, I felt compelled to impart some knowledge on all of you. I spoke to a woman this afternoon who was asking me about a property that she was already "renting." I sarcastically use the term renting because she paid two years up front, and hasn't been allowed in the home yet. She told me the lease has (according to her "landlord") been on the kitchen counter inside the house for three months, but they haven't been able to get into the property because of an "alarm code issue." Believe me when I tell you, I know this sounds ridiculous and I almost hung up on her. After some poking and prodding, she told me that the landlord lives in Dubai, she lives in England, the property is in The Hamptons, and they found the property online. She also told me that they mailed the required monies directly to the landlord and do not know his full name. At this point, I wasn't sure what was going on, but I knew that someone had taken advantage of her. Naturally, my next question was regarding the amount of money that actually changed hands. She said, "$5,000,000." I almost choked on my gum. Even I, having a lot of real estate fraud experience, couldn't believe what I was hearing. I triple-checked that I had the amount right, tried to rationalize why someone would send that amount of money to stranger, and then decided to continue listening to her. She casually stated that the rental equaled 2.5 Million per year. It was supposedly a fully-furnished home, filled with amenities such as a personal chef, and maid staff. Out of a combination of curiosity, horror and pity, I pulled up the property's public record. Now, public records can sometimes be wrong, but the assessed property value is usually within a certain range from the actual market value. Meaning, it's relatively accurate. The house they were "renting" was most recently assessed for a sales value of $780,000. Also, there were no records of real estate transactions (buying, selling or renting) since 2006. At this point, I let her know my findings, but sadly couldn't do much else. Yes People, this ridiculous story actually happened. I know you're probably thinking "Well, that person's an idiot." Think about it though, they're not from the U.S., and have no real estate experience. They are the ultimate easy-target. While I personally don't spend over $50 without knowing exactly where it's going, I can't speak for other people. Sadly, things like this happen all the time. Just three days ago, I spoke to a college-aged student who was hoping to rent an apartment in Manhattan. After already sending her out-of-country landlord money and giving out her social security number, she called me. Again, the property didn't exist, and there was nothing I could do. Obviously, this situation is more common than the aforementioned one. Regardless, people are being played left and right.
Here are three signs that, I've come to find, point to a listing being a scam:
1. The first tell-tale sign of a fake listing is the price. If nothing else you've seen in the area is comparable price-wise, you need to question A. Is it "real?" and B. If it is real, what's wrong with it? A great web site to check out to find out more pricing info is streeteasy.com. I have access to every system out there, and I use streeteasy more than anything else. Granted, it has mostly Manhattan listings, but it's still a great resource that could end up saving you a ton of money. If you're on Long Island, I would highly recommend checking out MLSLI.com.
2. Another common theme in these bogus listings are foreign landlords. I'm not sure why, but almost all of these issues I've dealt with have had an international landlord attached to them. The most common are Dubai, and England. My guess, is that they're less traceable.
3. If you are immediately asked for your social security number, run. They do not need it. Unless you are working with a real estate agent, there is no reason to give out your personal identification number. A real estate agent would obviously use your social to run credit, but if an agent isn't involved, you should run the credit yourself. There are many web sites that do it for free, the most popular being freecreditreport.com (You know, the one with those annoying commercials). You will be able to produce the standard credit report on your own, while maintaining your privacy.
The moral of this is plain and simple: Buyer Beware. If you are going to enter into a deal on your own, make sure you've successfully covered your behind. If you don't, you have no one to blame but yourself. I'd also highly recommend having a lawyer involved. If you're unwilling to work with a real estate professional, at least have some type of legal representation backing you in case something goes wrong - and believe me, something will go wrong.
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
You Want A Foreclosure? I'll Give You A Foreclosure!
The Best U.S. Cities to Buy a Foreclosed Home.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Falling Short.
I think before any further discussion is had, we need to acknowledge that maybe not everyone knows what a "short sale" is. A short sale is a "pre-forclosure." Let me guess, not sure what a pre-forclosure is either, huh? Great. According to Wikipedia, a short sale is "a sale in which the proceeds fall short of the balance owed on the property's loan. It often occurs when a borrower cannot pay the mortgage loan on their property, but the lender decides that selling the property at a moderate loss is better than pressing the borrower. Both parties consent to the short sale process, because it allows them to avoid foreclosure, which involves hefty fees for the bank and poorer credit report outcomes for the borrowers." Basically, a bank (the lender) is willing to take less for a property than the seller owes. Hence, "short" sale. They are literally falling short on the proceed amount. For obvious reasons, most sellers prefer this option (if they qualify for it) over foreclosure. While both negatively impact your credit, you will be eligible to purchase a home again in two years, as opposed to the 5 year restriction of a foreclosure. Don't get me wrong, neither are fun. It's really a matter of the lesser-evil, at this point.
There are obviously some notable problems with short sales (there wouldn't be much of an argument if there weren't problems, right?) The biggest problem I find is the element of "the unknown" throughout majority of the transaction. The buyer, seller and brokers have little to no control over anything that may occur. The bank's the head honcho, we just follow suit. Aside from the process (usually) taking 6 months or more, the bank can pull out at any time. Meaning, you can be in contract between yourself and the seller, and the bank can still reject your offer. The deal can die at any moment, and you can't do a damn thing about it. If you're making one of the most important purchases of your life, I'd venture to guess you wouldn't want to gamble your money like that. Another issue is that the bank isn't required to see all offers, and they will most likely, not counter. Because short sales are being called the quote unquote "good deals," all buyers want in. Most short sales have multiple offers on them. (I'm personally waiting to hear the results of an offer a buyer put in on a home that had 44 offers on it. We are "in contract," but it means absolutely nothing until the bank accepts). The bank has so many options at their disposal, that they have no need to counter. Additionally, the bank does not allow you to change your offer once it's submitted. The bank sets a cut off date for offers, and then selects the best choice from what they have. The only time a bank will counter is if it comes down to two similar "deals," and they want to push one off of the fence. Then, and only then, will you get a counter request from the bank. Lastly, banks prefer all-cash buyers (don't we all?). They have the foresight to know that some of today's mortgaged buyers, will become tomorrow's short sale sellers. At this point, it's really hard to negotiate a short sale deal without a substantial down payment and liquidity. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but it doesn't make the deal easy. While all of you first-time buyers may not "mind" the idea of purchasing a short sale, the bank minds the idea of you.
Well, now that I've spouted off all the negatives, let's look for some positives, shall we'll? As mentioned before, short sales are a great option for investors/all-cash buyers. In the scenario that you have the cash ready, willing and able, the bank (most banks) will accommodate by closing quicker. Remember, they want to get rid of the house just as much as you want to purchase it. The bank is taking a loss merely by approving the short sale, in the first place. The quicker they sell it, the better. I'm not saying short sales can't be an option for a mortgaged buyer as well, but right, they will have to meet very stringent qualifications. Another great thing about short sales, is that you're getting a house at true market value. The bank has nothing to gain by overpricing a home. Keep in mind, short sales are different from foreclosures. You're not going to get a $2,000,000 property for $999,999. It's not happening. However, because the bank/seller wants to get rid of the property, they more often than not, price to sell. Something that's nice about a short sale vs. foreclosure is that the owner is still very much involved in the sale. While they may not be making a profit, they're also not being evicted from their home and then having it published in the local paper (Short sales allow the seller to maintain anonymity. Where as a foreclosure is public record). In laymans terms, short sale sellers are less pissed off. As a buyer, this will greatly benefit you. Short sales and foreclosures are both sold "as is." Because the short sale seller is less agitated, there is less of a chance that they've destroyed the property. Hence, benefiting the buyer.
The Moral: Short sales are unavoidable. Eventually, we will all be in a situation where either we personally, or someone we know is dealing with one. We need to be prepared, and really take the time as agents, buyers, sellers, investors, whatever...to educate ourselves on what's not-so-slowly becoming most of our market. There will always be "regular" sales, but I think if we looked at current market data, we'd all be amazed how "regular" sales pale in comparison number-wise to short sales. We're at a point in our market that these properties need to sell. If they don't, we will stay in this rut we've been in. We won't be able to produce more "regular" inventory without successfully selling off the bank-owned properties. Short sales are here to stay, are you?
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
A Poll, If You Will.
Friday, May 28, 2010
Be Here, Now.
The first argument was, of course, buyers/sellers/renters have access to the same information that we do. True. Anyone can go on a computer, log onto one of the million real estate-devoted web sites out there, and find out about a house. Depending on what web site they're on, they can probably find out the listing agent's name and info. Bottom line, we are undeniably on par with our clients when it comes to factual information on a house. What about history, though?( I'm saying this coming from a purchasing standpoint because sellers are a whole different ball game). Aside from driving by the house a few times over the past three years and seeing listing signs, they have no idea why 5 different real estate companies have held this listing and that the seller isn't negotiable. They also don't know that the house is three weeks away from going into pre-forclosure because the seller needed to sell two years ago and has rejected every offer that's come in (Of course, this is all hypothetical...or is it?). Another thing, and perhaps the most important thing, our clients only have access to information we put out there. I truly believe that a little mystery keeps a relationship alive. No need to over-share before really getting to know one another, right? Something I like to do (well, now suggest doing) is to list a house, regardless of how expensive/inexpensive it may be, at "price upon request." As a listing agent, the buyer MUST come to you to find out that information. It gives you back the upper-hand. As a buyer's agent, that "price upon request" will become factual information you have and your buyer doesn't. They will need you. A little mystery never hurt anyone. C'mon, People. Why buy the cow, if the milk is free?
The second argument she gave me kind of goes along with the first. She feels that (and please, ignore the morbidity in this statement) once the older generation of both agents and customers pass on, the younger generation will wipe out the need for a the client/agent relationship. To sort of piggy back off of my first point. Yes, the younger/computer-savvy customers are living in a "do it yourself" mindset. They're independent and smart, which is why they will come to find they just plain old don't have the time. There's a reason why being a "Real Estate Agent" is a profession. (shocker, right?) Real Estate, for most people, is a full-time, 'round-the-clock job. I don't know about you, but if I had to take on a full-time second job, I wouldn't be able. I'm questioned a lot by customer as to why they need an agent. I always answer the same way. I ask "Do you have a full-time job?" Hopefully, they say "yes." (I have answers for the "no's," but it's more of a why-the-hell-are-you-buying-a-house-now-you-need-to-save-your-money kind of answer) I then respond simply by asking "Do you want another one?" If you can find me someone who says "yes" to that and means it, I'll give you $100. The last thing someone wants to do, is spend their few and far between free moments sifting through hundreds of listing. I also make sure I explain to people how much inventory is out there right now. I did a search for a friend of mine today and came up with 240 listings. That was with having detailed search parameters. Because it's my JOB, I have no problem doing that. If it wasn't though, I'd get fed up real fast. My point: Yes, the younger generation certainly has a more fast-paced-we-want-it-now-attitude, but there is nothing fast-paced about searching through listings to find the perfect house. Most people are very excited when they first start their search and look through a million houses, but, by the second week of searching around and not really understanding what they're seeing, they call me. People think they don't need us until they try to do the work themselves.
The last point she made was that people can easily list their homes as FSBOs and save money. I get it, commission is expensive. You know what's even more expensive? Advertising. You know what's even more expensive than advertising? Using your own money to do it, and not building it into a sales price. I've brought up the point before that sellers really don't have a grasp on how to come up with a comparable market analysis. They are unaware of the different details that go into the equation to find accurate comps. Because we have this knowledge, we are able to build both our commission and advertising expenses into a sales price. Not to mention, a home gets much more exposure listed with a reputable real estate company than it does as a FSBO. Essentially, they end up spending less money by paying us a commission. Again, this also goes along with the idea of taking on a full-time second job. You don't just put a sign out in front of your house and collect a check. You need to take phone calls, have open houses, always be there when the house is being shown, market the property and directly hear all of the negative feedback. Something I think a lot of seller's don't see as an obstacle when listing their home as a FSBO, is how cruel people can be. When buyers walk into a house, they mostly point out what they don't like. We're in a market where they've seen everything. They know what they want, and they don't hesitant to point out what they don't. Sellers, these comments WILL offend you. You've put your heart and soul into your home. We recognize that it's your "home," but to us, it's just another "house." Why not have a non-emotionally attached middle-man intercept these critiques, and soften the blow a bit when the message is relayed to you? Your house is a disaster. You happy, now? Didn't think so.
The moral: Real Estate is not dead, dying, or even remotely ill. We have all of our shots, eat well and exercise. We are an ever-progressing, vital resource, and should recognize ourselves as such. These times may be changing, but we're riding shot gun.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
A Quick Little Treat For Thursday
Long Island Oddities
Enjoy!
Monday, May 24, 2010
Fair is Fair, Right?
This past week, I spoke to two buyers with two very different requests. However, due to the "law," I had to field said requests with the same type of vague answers/response questions. The first person I spoke to was explaining their search and told me they don't want to be in, and I quote "any minority neighborhoods." When I responded with "What areas would you like to be in?" They told me "One with no black people." (Nice, right? A side note to all of the buyers/sellers out there, we will never laugh with about racial issues. We think it's disgusting. Real estate professionals, for the most part, are open-minded, equal opportunity-seeking, people). On a lighter note, the second potential buyer told me that they wanted to be in a "great family area, with a great school district." My response "there are some great web sites to help you determine where you might want to be. I'd be more than happy to send them your way" I have no problem saying that to a buyer, but what is unfathomable to me, is that those two requests are supposed to be answered in the same type of way. Can we not allow ourselves for a minute to see the absurdity in this? A blatant racially-driven request should not have to be treated the same way as an innocent one. Now, I know some will say "well, that's a matter of opinion." Yes, you're right. That's my opinion. The "meat and potatoes" of what I do is "matching" a client with the best agent for their needs. If I know someone is family-oriented and interested in school districts, I will match them with someone similar. Is that going against Fair Housing laws, too? When do we take a step back and consider the idea that being politically correct (or, what we've all been taught is politically correct) has gone a little too far? If I can't facilitate a buyer by offering the knowledge I have of my market place, what good am I?
Do you know that casting directors can't request a certain race for any particular role. The example I was given when I learned this is, if Spike Lee were directing Malcolm X, he legally cannot request a black actor for the title role (for all of those who don't know who Malcolm X is, click the link. You'll soon understand the insanity in this). I'm sure some will argue that this is the right thing to do. I, however, just don't see it. Now, this is hardly related to real estate and the issues we deal with on a day to day basis, but it goes along with the idea that we're all slowly and surely becoming extremists. Are we going to stop asking people for financial statements at risk of offending someone that may have lost their job during these hard economic times? Really, People, where does it end?
Sadly, there is no great moral today (Grab a tissue, you'll be okay). There doesn't seem to be an end in sight, or any type of concrete answer, for that matter. Needless to say, (but I will anyway) this is a tricky issue, and it's sometimes easier to just follow the rules blindly instead of getting ourselves in trouble. We all come from different backgrounds, and no one's story is the same. This is why I think it's so hard to come up with a moral code for so many variations of people. We all have different opinions of what's right and what's wrong, and different knowledge to offer. I think the Fair Housing laws are really the only way to fully protect ourselves, but I guess I'm just saddened that they have to be drilled into our heads and that because of past mistakes, we're no longer trusted to make tactful decisions. Because of our inability to see "people" over anything else (be it, color/gender..whatever else you may see), we are now being boxed into a strict code of morals that don't allow for situational blunders. So I ask you this: If our code of ethics was no longer in place, would our professional standards fall apart?
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Stop! Collaborate, and Listen.
I had a woman call in about three weeks ago who was looking to list her house in The Hamptons. The house most recently appraised for around 1.3Mil. Our conversation went well, I had one of my agents go over to view her home, and she agreed to sign the exclusive. Yay for us, right? Wrong. As it turns out, she owed significantly more on the house than it's worth (How many times have you heard that in the past year?). She wanted to price it around 1.8MIl, and quite frankly, it would never sell. In situations like this, I urge my agent to walk away. We politely bowed out, and (I thought) moved on. I received an e-mail today saying "Great news! I think we may still have the listing." My first thought was "Great, they've figured out their finances and can list at market value." So, I respond to the e-mail inquiring further on price/terms etc. only to find out that we're still at 1.8Mil. I had to catch a train (yes, I commute everyday. You're welcome, Long Island), so this issue is yet to be resolved. That being said, first thing tomorrow morning she will once again be encouraged to walk away.
I want to be part of the solution, People. Not the problem. Just as I urge the people (buyers/sellers/agents) I work with, I'm urging you - Stop the madness! Take a minute to really look at what's going on around you. Why would you list a home, market it, show it and know you ultimately, can't sell it? On the other end, why would you encourage a buyer to make an offer that you know won't be accepted, or at least negotiated? Think about it, the economy is driven by the real estate market. We, as agents/brokers/consultants/managers are directly linked to the happenings of our economic world. Why would you want to do anything to A. Drive sales down, and B. Make yourself look like you're not an expert? Our clients, for the most part, are at a stand still. They have no idea which way is up. While they may be internet savvy and can tell you the address of every house currently for sale, and the minimum commission of every company, they truly don't know market values. How can they? They may know what their neighbor's house sold for, but as we all know, their neighbor's house has an extra bedroom, permits for a pool in place and a better-manicured lawn. The one thing our clients still don't have (and hopefully never will) is the knowledge to produce accurate comparable. Any good agent knows, "comps" are the key to success on both the selling and buying side of your business. How many of you pull up comps of surrounding homes when your buyer's getting ready to make an offer? I'd venture to guess, most of you don't. Why not, though? How can you truly assess what a reasonable offer is, without know the "sold" market around you?
The moral: ( So sad. Time to stop. I write my blogs on the train, People. Once the train hits the station, you lose me 'til tomorrow.) Don't be selfish! What a ridiculous notion. You've been told since birth to share and not be greedy. If you've never implemented these basic actions into your every day life, now's the time to start. Better yet, be selfish. Only take on clients you know you can make money off of. (See what I did there? I taught all of you selfish people a way to appear not selfish. You're welcome.) Really though, wouldn't you rather actually close deals than have the "privilege" of saying you have 214 listings? You can't buy shoes with a listing, and I'm a girl who loves me some shoes.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
It's Not You, It's Me.
I'm going to give an example of my current adversity, while trying to maintain anonymity throughout (Good luck to me, right?) I received an e-mail last week with some not-so-kind words. This e-mail was between myself and two other people. Being the semi-cut throat person that I am, my initial reaction was to respond in the same tone in which the first e-mail was sent. After typing up my response, and reading it through, I started to get butterflies in my stomach out of nerves as to what the response back would be (My bark is usually worse than my bite). I took a step back, and took a minute to think out the few scenarios that could play out by me sending my nasty response. The best case scenario is that the person who sent the initial e-mail would feel like an idiot, and fear me. We all love a good power trip. The worst, I would be stuck in a back and forth, World War III-esq e-mail battle for the next few hours. I thought to myself, if the best and worst case scenarios are equally as crappy, who's winning? And, even further, why does someone always feel the need to win? In life, we're driven to end up on the top of any argument we face. I ask you though, at who's expense? We may not care what out "opponent" feels like at the end of the day, but if it affects how we feel, something in us needs to change. For the first time in a long time, I kept my mouth shut. I let the situation play out on its own and didn't provoke/support/oppose any side. Guess what? I went home battle scar-free.
I've had the honor of working with some really amazing people in my career so far, and I can tell you, the most successful ones know what not to say and when not to say it. I admit, I have not yet fully mastered this skill. It is in my nature to be on the defense. As I get older and grow more successful in my business, I'm starting to understand that not everything needs to turn into an issue. Someone does something you don't like? You find someone or something offensive? Let it go. As my mother always says (seriously, if I didn't know better, I would say she invented this oh-so-common saying) "what goes around comes around." Translation, they'll get theirs. Wouldn't you prefer to "win" at the hands of the universe spitting on your opponent, as opposed to you fighting an uphill battle that's most likely just prolonging the inevitable?
The moral: Ah yes, my wise words of wisdom are coming to an end for the day. I've got people to see, food to eat, and TV to watch. Right, the moral...Pick your battles. I don't want anyone to think I'm saying to let everything go, because I myself am incapable of doing that. If someone gets in your way, and your new-found attitude of passivity isn't working, by all means - knock them down. However, if you take a minute during an argument to say to yourself "Jess, don't send that e-mail," you might find that you saved yourself from some heartache. Everyone just wants to be happy (well, I know I do). If you can change something in yourself to further increase the amount of times a day you're able to truly smile, why wouldn't you?
Monday, May 17, 2010
It's a Woman's World
I can't even begin to count (numbers aren't my thing) how many times I've had someone I'm speaking with request a female agent. I have to admit, when a man requests a female agent, I always feel inclined to ask why (there have been one too many crimes against female real estate agents not to). The answer that 99.9% of people give me (again, investors aside. Most investors prefer men. I think it has something to do with the bond they develop over the actual architecture of a building. Something I, as a woman, have no interest in) is comfort. They think a woman will take the time to truly listen to what they need as opposed to showing them things that don't fit their requirements. Also, men (and women, too...but you knew that already) have told me that because real estate can be so emotional, they feel they will be able to let their guard down more with a female agent. The other .01% openly admit to the prospect of getting a date, but what can you do?
So what does this mean for the men out there who don't possess the qualities to put people at ease? Get a sex change, or take estrogen? No. C'mon, even I'm not that controversial. Men, take the time to listen. I know, I know...women have been telling you this for years, you haven't listened, and you seem to be doing okay. This is from the horses mouth, People! (i never liked that term...) I speak to your clients before you do. They want compassion, they want a friend, they want what they want.
I do see a down side to real estate being a female-driven business, though. As I sit through my class today, I hear the controversial questions being asked only by women. In addition to being nurturing and sociable, we can also be loud and obnoxious. (I say this as both a loud and obnoxious woman. Please don't take offense). We're not very good at keeping our mouths shut, and often dig ourselves into a proverbial grave because we just don't know when to shut up. That's not saying men are the Earth's response to loud-mouthed women. Unfortunately for us, a lot of times loud and obnoxious equals power for a man. For women, loud and obnoxious most often equates with nagging. My solution? Well, if you're an independent agent and you prefer to work alone, try to take some time to notice some qualities of successful people of the opposite gender around you. For those of you who prefer partners, or having a team, make the effort to mix up both the genders and the gender roles. I always find that the most successful teams/partnerships in the real estate business are those with a little gender variety. Regardless of gender, it's hard to work with someone who is similar to you. Similar work ethic, yes. Similar personality/reaction type, no. The whole point in giving into the group mentality of business isn't (get ready to be shocked) to cover more ground! The point is to offer your client all aspects of what they need. How many times have you heard partners say "She's the lister. I'm better with buyers?" I'm sure a lot. I'm sort of getting off the topic of real estate being a female-dominate business, but I feel it's all related. I also don't have much of an attention span.
The moral: Know your strengths! We all have them. We have to, or else we'd only have weakness and wouldn't be functioning as working professionals/mothers/fathers/daughters/brothers/friends...anything. Men, I know we're annoying, but listen to the females around you. There's a reason we're so damn good at real estate! Women, don't get cocky now that this is out in the open, and for god sake ladies, learn when to shut up.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
The Crying Game
Unfortunately, I receive a lot of phone calls from widows. At first, I was a bit thrown by the abundance of emotion involved in these conversations. While I'm used to people telling me about their various ailments, and medical procedures, (Remember: Jewish girl from Long Island. We LOVE to talk about ailments) I was not used to raw emotion, and I certainly wasn't used to it from complete strangers. One of the first people I ever spoke to regarding real estate was a widow named Andrea. From the beginning of our conversation all the way through the end, she was crying. Being a bit "green" in the area of truly emotional conversations, I continued on with asking the questions I needed answered to get her in touch with the right agent based solely on her real estate needs. I didn't even consider at this point that there was more to what I do than putting a price range and an area with someone that handles said price range and area. Not only did I insult her for not being more of an understanding ear, she decided to not use me or my agent. I realized, "Wow, this is my fault. I need to fix this" Am I saying to breakdown and pour your heart out to your perspective client? Definitely not. I'm saying that you have to soften yourself a bit in an emotional situation. Most people that I deal with on a daily basis are typical "Long Islanders." They're funny, a bit quirky, and want to get to the bottom line quickly while still having a quality conversation. It took me months (not years...it's not that hard of a concept) to develop this layer of myself that I like to call "foe-emotion." Because I am not naturally an outright emotional person, I need to fake it 'til I make it. It sounds simple, but for me, it wasn't. I had to learn to ask questions like "How long ago did your husband pass away?" and "Has it been very tough on you?" Not only did I have to learn to ask them, I had to have genuine responses such as "I'm so sorry to hear that," and "You poor thing" lined up. Again, simple, but do we all do it?
The moral: It's okay to let your guard down. As mentioned in a previous post, sometimes we have to turn off of the professionalism and turn up the personal. Will "Mary" ever buy/sell a home? Who knows. The point is that by letting my emotional wall come down a bit, I was able to ensure that should she decide to make a real estate transaction, she would trust me to help. Believe me when I tell you, if I can master the "foe-emotion," so can you. Think on it.
Friday, May 14, 2010
The Joke's On Who?
I've made so many bad jokes, and as a result have had to learn how to A. Read people's humor, and B. Make fun of myself. If you can master the art of chameleon-izing (that's a new word I made up. Like it?) yourself to fit your (hopefully attentive) listening ear, you're golden. I wasn't always a real estate expert, you know. I waitressed throughout college and learned how to deal with, talk to, and most importantly, joke with all types of people. I urge you to use past experiences as a platform to bond with people. We've all had funny/embarrassing experiences - why not humanize yourself a bit? Steer away from being just an agent, or in my case, just a consultant. Show people that you're relate-able.
A fairly stupid example of humor helping me, is my experience with one person I spoke to who unfortunately decided not to sell (they did, however, meet with my agent and have agreed to use her if they ever do sell). After registering on one of the web sites I work off of, I called a man named Yvon. Now, when I called Yvon I automatically assumed it was a woman. Strike one. After saying "Hi, is Yvon available?" and hearing a deep voice on the other end say "this is he," I started to laugh. After a moment of awkward silence, he started to laugh, too. Our conversation from there flowed very easily until he said he was retired. I thought he said "I'm really tired." Strike two. Because I was actually tired, I said "you're preaching to the choir Yvon. I can't keep my eyes open today!" Another awkward silence, and then laughter on his end. He said "NO! I said I'm RETIRED." I then started to laugh and said "that doesn't change the fact that I'm really tired, Yvon!" Now, I'm sure some of you are reading this and saying "that's stupid." And you're right, it IS stupid. That's the point. By me making a stupid mistake and being able to laugh at it, I was able to create a relationship with someone I never have, and probably never will meet. Agents have quite the advantage over me. Agents get face time. If that can be done over the phone in a 15 minute conversation, imagine what can be done face-to-face. An interesting follow-up to this story: After I got off the phone with Yvon, I was told my conversation was unprofessional by someone I work with. Being yourself is never unprofessional. Use who you are to make connections, not what you are. I may be a licensed real estate agent, but more importantly, I'm Jess. I'm all I've got. A piece of paper and a 70-something hour course will not change who you are internally.
The moral: Using your personality is always professional. I'm not saying make bathroom jokes, and start calling people "Dude." I'm merely suggesting the idea of using your natural ability to change forms and personalize the experience of each person you come into contact with. To me, the term "colloquial" isn't necessary. I prefer "conversational." We all know when to turn up our professionalism a little bit, but do we know when to turn it down?
Reach Out and Touch Base
About 8 months ago, I referred out someone who was looking to sell their home on the south shore of Nassau County and purchase on the north shore of Suffolk County. As we all know (well, maybe you don't. You could be in Kentucky for all I know), these are two very different areas and to find an agent that covers both, well, that's just crazy. Call me crazy, I found one. Within hours the potential buyer/seller and my agent were in communication and making plans to meet the following Saturday. So far, so good. Being the optimist I am, I sent back my generic "Thanks for the update, So and so! Keep up the great work!" Low and behold, they meet and are instantly in love with one another. Can you imagine, a nice, Jewish girl from Long Island has the ability to match-make for real estate? Who would have thought (Please, laugh at this...my cultural background and gender make me the ideal matchmaker. It's funny. get it? Haha? No? You'll get used to me) Words like "lovely" and sentences like "we've forged a nice relationship" are being thrown around. At this point in any match, I'm thrilled. Things like this are music to my ears. Weeks pass with updates from my agents saying "they're going to list soon" and "any day now!" I'm starting to wonder, "what the hell's going on?" These people who were so desperate to get out of their small, starter home and move to a big beautiful new one, are skirting around listing. This went on for months. Their kid was sick, they took a vacation, their kid was sick again, they had to attend the president's ball at the white house, they were called away on secret spy business for the military. (Fine, the last two are bs)...You get the point though, every week was something else. I had lost all hope. First we were looking to list the first week of November, November became December and December became January which brought us to February. At this point, I openly admit that I probably would have given up. Not my agent. She stayed on these people like white on rice. She wasn't letting them get away so easily. For lack of a better term, she stalked these people until she was considered part of their family. Her stalking paid off. 6 months and 23 days later, she listed the property. Not only did she list the property, she put it into contract within a week and a half of listing it. In addition, she found them a house to buy and got THAT into contract the same week. Needless to say, the seller was thrilled and so was I. Here I thought this was a dead issue, and all of a sudden, we have not one, but two deals signed, sealed and delivered. Both deals are expected to close next month.
The moral. Ah yes, there's always a moral. Stick to your clients as closely as your stick to your gut. Your gut is always right. Not only will people appreciate you staying with them through months and months of white house benefits and militia endeavors, they will come to you first when the time is right.
Buyers Are Liars: The Myth To End All Myths?
Something I experience on a day-to-day basis is the "Dead on Arrival" buyer, and oddly enough, the occasional seller. Meaning, they flat out don't call you back. Ever. I always ask myself, why does this happen? Are buyers truly liars? Or, are we not making ourselves seem important enough to call back? I think I've finally come to the conclusion that yes, some buyers are definitely liars. They say what they need to say to get what they want (don't we all?) That being said, I think we often forget outside factors. In the real estate business, we often hear one side of a story. While I can talk to a potential buyer who says they have 20% down, needs to move ASAP and a budget of $1,000,000, that same buyer can go back to their spouse/parent/partner/friend/dog and they can say "well, what'd you talk to them for?" or, even better "I already spoke to someone else." I think even more important to remember is what I like to call "The Embarrassment Factor." What's more embarrassing than spilling your guts out to someone, and once the conversation ends, realize you can't actually act on anything you just said? Nothing. People have egos, and often times, want to avoid the personal connection with someone. This is why, I feel, a lot of people end up working on a listing to listing basis. They understand the listing agent is working for the seller, and that's the way they want it.
Another important thing to remember is that most of these people out there right now are just looking. In addition to the ever-beloved "nosey neighbor" you now have the "window shopper." The "window shopper" is a bread that is spreading like wild-fire. Because it's quote unquote "the time to buy," everyone and their mother is looking. Key word: LOOKING. Will they buy something at some point in their lifetime? Probably - most people do. However, right now, they want confirmation of the market. They want to know what's out there, and want to be able to say to their friends "I saw that house, and it's not worth X amount of dollars." Unfortunately, we have a lot of negativity out there. People are constantly trying to prove the market wrong. It may be the time to buy, but these buyers will low-ball the hell out of any home they come across. If said low-ball isn't good enough, they will move on to the next house, and the next house and so on, and so forth. We are in the market of finicky buyers. Given the abundance of inventory, they are looking for "the perfect home." If you can't find it for them, they feel someone else can...and so the story goes. Unfortunately, most buyers don't realize that loyalty gets you everywhere in real estate (To the few that do, Bless your hearts). They also don't realize the reach most agents have. Because we are now working in an age of ever-progressing-one-upping-the-last-cool-thing technology, we have more information than ever. If you are a good agent, you now know you have the ability to show anyone, anything. The days of exclusivity and private listings are on their way out. Buyers only become liars when agents don't stand out. You want loyalty? You want great buyers? Make yourself worth their time. Show these people the necessity of having you as their agent. I could go on, and on about why standing out is important and how you're your own brand, but we all get that. We've all heard it for years. Seriously though, the more important you make yourself to someone, the more loyal they will be. It's the most simple rule in the book.
So I ask you to consider this: Buyers may lie, but is it your own fault?